View an interview with a visitor to the meeting as she talks about

• Making and maintaining  friendships
• Becoming happy with who you are
  

What surprised you?

I thought you were going to be showing stories about people or places.
I was a bit hesitatnt to start once. Once we began I found  I was sitting beside two ladies who had very fascinating  stories about their youth.
I was surprised that our little group learned much more about each other.
I was expecting a lecture, but  got participation.
The friendliness and openness.
A and B had written the same
The program.
Having to write something.
That I can talk openingly.
Surprised  that questions could draw forh information.



What did you learn about yourself and others?

One person worried the question might be too personal to enquire about.
Everyone is an interesting person.
Lots -- especially personal info.
A person was hesitant to speak abou a holiday in Engalnd, but after her inital relucgtance she started to have more confidence adn warm up!
I learned I am ery open to questioning and sharing my experiences.
This idea cold be used in our small group  get togethers to help members get to know more about each other.
Most people like to talk about themselves.
I tend to interrupt.  Have to watch this.
Most questions we ask everyday are not important ones unless you’re really going to listen.
My grandkids tend not to answer.Do I ask too many questions?
I like listening .. learning about others.
How everyone of us is do different.
I know  nothing about myself or how I i will react.
Retirement is relaxing, Work is stressful.
Island life is  preferable to being in big city.
People  love to share experiences.
How important  itis to ensure I have the time to listen before asking a question.
I learned more about my neighbours.


Why did you enjoy it


What was new for you?
People became unique individuals.
Because we all told what we do.
Information abou your past.
Something different.
Because I heard great stories.
Getting to know a new person
It’s great to be a good listener.
It was different.
It stimulated conversation.
It was very thought provoking. The ‘listening’ part was someting I need to work on!
Listening and connecting with fellow 55+ members.
I love learning about people!


How could you use ideas from this session?
Try to converse more, thought I already tro to do that .
Format questions to encourage  positive respones/ answers.
Conversations wtih family.
Just ask questions.
Reduce stress-enducing questions.
I could approach people  to get to know them.
To draw out shy people
Listen more.
Sharing my garden wtih others.
Be more  daring  to ask a stranger.
Because of today’s focus on personal safety I am very  nervous speaking to people . ie strangers.
People want folks to listen..

Interesting questions

What prompted you to have children?
How have your parents influenced your life?
 How are you filling up your retirement?
Why do people here say it is the best places to live
Why doesn’t someone listen?
Where  have you travelled to recently?
How did you come to Canada?
How would you like to rememberd after you die?