What surprised you?

The enthusiasm that was generated in the room.

How easy it was.

Where the conversation led.

The open way to strangers.

The energy and enthusiasm of the participants surprised me.

What did you learn about yourself and others?
It's easy, but improves with conscious effort.

That I'm getting over my shyness slowly.

My co-interlocutor had several life experiences similar to my own. We have an empathy we did not have before.

Everyone is interesting if ou can get them to talk.

That people you don't' know well can be very personable and interesting.

We are alike.

Able and flexible on my feet when needed

 

What was new for you?
Asking 'strangers' what could be interpreted as personal questions.

The whole process.

How easy is to turn the tide of skepticism.

Opening up to others I have not been introduced to.

Would you like to have another session like this?

I think that Probus would benefit from another session of this kind. It lets people think differently about an experience and value personal experience more. We are no longer hesitant to speak to strangers

The Club surely needs more interaction.
People like nothing better than talking about themselves

How could you use this session in your club and in your life?
An answer leads to another question.
In any gathering when people are socializing.
Be less conservative.

A help at cocktail parties.

With my grandchildren and a lot of children I spend time with.

Ask better questions of children, family and friends. Facilitate meaningful exchanges among colleagues.

Why did you enjoy it

I became acquainted with a very nice ladey who is now a friend.

I enjoy conversation and everyone was ready to talk!
Being less conservative. A man as a better advantage.

It was an interesting experience.

The friendly nature of the other person.

People opened up to each other.

Sharing. A new friend.

The spontaneity.

Element of uncertainty: risk - being deep with people I just met. I always disliked 'small talk' but this method makes regular talk fun and meaningful.

An interesting question you heard, thought of, or asked.

Who experienced the greatest influence upon your life ( apart from your parents)?